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Finding Your First Dance

  • Writer: Brent Miller
    Brent Miller
  • Apr 14
  • 4 min read

Updated: Apr 21

*** This week we give you all of our best ideas for finding your First Dance ->

Photography by Gillian Foster Photography at Jam Factory TO, Planned by Open Sky Weddings


This is one of our favourite moments of the entire day. Outside of the ceremony your first dance is easily the most memorable part of your wedding day, often becoming the most beautiful photo that lives on your living room walls forever. Your first dance can also be one of the hardest songs to decide upon. You want a song that feels like your own. A song that tells your story in your own unique way. Something that isn't too obvious. A song that gives you the feels, without being too feely.


With a Live Band, literally any song in the world is possible. A wonderful example of this is one of our favourite music videos we made for the Foo Fighters' classic TIMES LIKE THESE, filmed at Jam Factory by our amazing friends at Twenty5 Films, turning even hard rock into a unique and timeless First Dance song.


It really can be anything, an we would love to prove it to you. We have taken the time to think of our favourite First Dance songs we have come across and organized them all by decade along with a specific video example to help you imagine what your favourite song might sound like slowed down as a First Dance song too. Feel free to slow dance at home in hopes it helps inspire your own unique First Dance song too -BM



2010s & 2020s

Marry Me - Train

10,000 Hours - Dan & Shay, Justin Bieber

Lover - Taylor Swift

Marry Me - Train

What I Wouldn't Do - Serena Ryder

Love You For A Long Time - Maggie Rogers

Quitting You - The Arkells

I Will Wait - Mumford & Sons

A Thousand Years - Christina Perri

Make You Feel My Love - Adele

Thinking Out Loud - Ed Sheeran

Budapest - George Ezra

And Then Some - The Arkells

Dog Years - Maggie Rogers

Never In My Wildest Dreams - Dan Auerbach (The Black Keys)

Today Was A Fairytale - Taylor Swift



2000s

Starlight - Muse

Times Like These - Foo Fighters

Lucky - Jason Mraz & Colbie Caillat

Sparks - Coldplay

Do You Remember - Jack Johnson

The Girl - City & Colour

Hey There Delilah - Plain White T's

U Got It Bad - Usher

Save Room - John Legend

Use Somebody - Kings Of Leon

I Miss You - Blink-182

Pieces - Sum 41

Dig - Incubus

I Will Follow You Into The Dark - Death Cab For Cutie

I'm With You - Avril Lavigne

Chasing Cars - Snow Patrol

Heart Of Life - John Mayer



1990s

Tonight Tonight - The Smashing Pumpkins

Kiss Me - Sixpence None The Richer

Truly Madly Deeply - Savage Garden

All My Life - KC & Jojo

Wonderwall - Oasis

Bobcaygeon - The Tragically Hip

Angel Of Mine - Monica

Linger - The Cranberries

Nightswimming - R.E.M.

Harvest Moon - Neil Young

Back At One - Brian McKnight

Lost Together - Blue Rodeo

I Will Always Love You - Whitney Houston

On Bended Knee - Boyz II Men

Everything I Do (I Do It For You) - Bryan Adams

Always - Bon Jovi

By Your Side - Sade



1980s

Heaven Is A Place On Earth - Belinda Carlisle

Lovesong - The Cure

With Or Without You - U2

Sweet Child O Mine - Guns N Roses

Drive - The Cars

Heaven - Bryan Adams

In Your Eyes - Peter Gabriel

Saving All My Love For You - Whitney Houston

Time After Time - Cyndi Lauper

Everywhere - Fleetwood Mac

I Melt With You - Modern English

Here Comes Your Man - The Pixies

This Must Be The Place - The Talking Heads

Never Tear Us Apart - INXS

Eternal Flame - The Bangles

The Best - Tina Turner



1970s

Your Song - Elton John

Just The Way You Are - Billy Joel

You're My Best Friend - Queen

Let's Stay Together - Al Green

Maybe I'm Amazed - Paul McCartney

Wild Horses - Rolling Stones

Into The Mystic - Van Morrison

Have You Ever Seen The Rain - CCR

How Deep Is Your Love - Bee Gees

You Are The Sunshine Of My Life - Stevie Wonder

Killing Me Softly With His Song - Roberta Flack

Maybe I'm Amazed - Paul McCartney

If You Leave Me Now - Chicago

Wonderful Tonight - Eric Clapton

Songbird - Fleetwood Mac



1960s

Daydream Believer - The Monkees

Here Comes The Sun - The Beatles

Can't Help Falling In Love - Elvis Presley

Unchained Melody - The Righteous Brothers

God Only Knows - The Beach Boys

My Girl - The Temptations

Be My Baby - The Ronettes

At Last - Etta James

Strangers In The Night - Frank Sinatra

Will You Love Me Tomorrow - The Shirelles

Cant Take My Eyes Off You - Franki Valli

For Once In My Life - Stevie Wonder

Michelle - The Beatles

To Love Somebody - Janis Joplin

Sweet Thing - Van Morrison



1950s

You Send Me - Sam Cooke

Unforgettable - Nat King Cole

Only You - The Platters

Love Me Tender - Elvis Presley

Earth Angel - The Penguins

Why Do Fools Fall In Love - Frankie Lymon

Fever - Peggy Lee

Cheek To Cheek - Ella Fitzgerald

Dream A Little Dream Of Me - Doris Day

My Baby Just Cares For Me - Nina Simone

All I Have To Do Is Dream - The Everly Brothers

You Belong To Me - Jo Stafford

A Kiss To Build A Dream On - Louis Armstrong

What A Difference A Day Makes - Dinah Washington

I Cant Stop Loving You - Ray Charles

Under My Skin - Frank Sinatra

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